By Wendy Habelow Even under the best of circumstances, communication can be strained as a relationship is ending. Yet keeping the lines of communication open is essential for reaching an agreement in a divorce. Collaborative is ideally suited to help divorcing partners learn more effective communication strategies and is fundamentally designed to provide for face-to-face […]
By Attorney Robert B. Fried The most common complaints I hear at the beginning of a divorce are “We can’t communicate” and “He/she won’t talk to me.” The truth be known: Many marriages break down because the parties have grown apart and they no longer talk to each other. The professionals in a Collaborative Divorce […]
By Elaine Ducharme, Ph.D. Dozens of studies over the past several decades have shown that men of all ages and ethnicities are less likely than women to seek help for all sorts of problems, including physical and emotional issues. This is often generational. Boys learn from their dads who learned from their dads that talking […]
June 12 is National Children’s Day, a day on which we honor the children in our lives by slowing down and refocusing on important things. Collaborative Divorce recognizes the need to focus on children, not only in terms of divorce, but also how children develop their character and what parents need to keep in mind. […]
By Brenda Larkin Divorce is a stressful situation, and the financial changes can be overwhelming. Take a deep breath and remember there are solutions and strategies to make sound decisions about your money. This is YOUR financial journey. Time to take charge of your journey. Talk with a financial professional to discuss your fears, goals, […]
By Attorney Robert B. Fried The divorce process takes an emotional and financial toll on the parties going through it. And, unfortunately, the emotional aspects can affect the children as well who are seeing their world turned upside down. Where are the children going to live? With whom? When will they see the other parent? […]
By Psychologist Wendy F. Habelow Collaborative Divorce was developed as an alternative to traditional litigation, where attorneys and judges play a large role in determining outcomes for clients and families. In contrast, the Collaborative process is an alternative to court-based divorce. Here, clients are supported and empowered to shape their own destiny and the future […]
Collaborative Divorce is a team approach that resolves disputes without going to court. Beyond avoiding the high cost and stress of high conflict litigation, there are countless benefits to this style of divorce. Collaborative is a civil and mature approach to divorce that simultaneously recognizes the end of a marriage and the continuing relationship, obligations […]
By Psychologist Wendy F. Habelow A gray divorce refers to couples who decide to part ways over the age of 50, often after a long-term marriage. When it comes to gray divorces, it is important to keep in mind that although the developmental needs of adult children are quite different than minor children, they often […]
By Psychologist Abby Cole Gray Divorce is particularly sad because couples have shared so many years together, and they had every intention of sustaining their marriage “until death do us part.” Their sense of identity is rooted in the marriage and the family they created, and it is difficult to envision a future alone. People […]
By Robert B. Fried Angry people do not settle divorce cases quietly — cases in point: Tiger Woods, Christie Brinkley, Charlie Sheen, Kim Kardashian, Angelina Jolie — the list goes on. And we sit here reading about the rich and famous and who is having adulterous relationships, who is using drugs, who is physically abusing […]
In normal circumstances, separating or divorcing families face new and daunting challenges during the holidays. The pandemic makes these situations even more complicated, but last year taught us a few strategies to make the season a little less difficult for coparenting and to keep things civil under such added stress. The Collaborative Divorce process inherently […]
By Attorney Kathryn Bissonnette The holidays are a stressful time for everyone, but especially for families that are experiencing a change in family dynamics due to a divorce or custody case. For the children in the middle of a divorce or custody action, the holidays can seem unbearable. Depending on their ages, children may feel […]
By Attorney Robert Fried Once a decision is made to divorce, the first question I hear is, “How quickly can we get it done?” But once you get to November, the question should be whether it makes sense to divorce in 2021 or wait until January, 2022. If you decide to divorce in 2021, who […]
By Attorney Susan Busby “The collaborative process can help individual clients cope during the holidays. Because they are not being made to feel like adversaries, couples are often more able to craft a holiday plan that benefits both of them. For example, many couples still celebrate together. This is especially true when children are involved. […]
By Attorney Susan Busby “The Collaborative process can help ease discomfort around holiday gatherings by encouraging clients to put the focus on children when creating a holiday parenting plan. When the focus is on the children, then it is more likely than not that holiday traditions can be honored for the sake of the children. […]
CCDG Psychologists Wendy Habelow, Ph.D., and Elaine Ducharme, Ph.D., detail the three ways to divorce in Connecticut: litigation, mediation & #CollaborativeDivorce, which is much more family oriented and allows for more control over the outcome and the health & well being of the family.
CCDG Psychologists Wendy Habelow, Ph.D., and Elaine Ducharme, Ph.D., discuss the three components of a divorce: legal, financial & emotional — and how #CollaborativeDivorce addresses them.
CCDG Family Law Attorney Robert B. Fried and CCDG Psychologist Elaine Ducharme, Ph.D., discuss the three components of a divorce: Legal, financial & emotional. If any one of these areas is not addressed, the divorce can be more painful and destructive for everyone, especially the kids.
CCDG Psychologist Wendy Habelow, Ph.D. and CCDG Family Law Attorney Attorney Robert B. Fried discuss the advantage of Collaborative Divorce and why this is one of the highlights of their work.
In March 2020, Covid affected every facet of our society, including closing the courts. With a backlogged system, it’s still difficult to get into the courts. CCDG Psychologist Wendy Habelow, Ph.D. and CCDG Family Law Attorney Attorney Robert B. Fried discuss the Connecticut Family Court System and the advantage of Collaborative Divorce now more than […]
“Covid has stressed the majority of individuals and families. When divorce is added to this mix it is not unusual to find one or both parents exhibiting signs of anxiety or other mental health issues,” said CCDG psychologist Dr. Elaine Ducharme. “During a traditional litigated divorce there is often an attempt to use a mental […]
This week is Mental Illness Awareness Week. When it comes to divorce when mental illness is involved, a Collaborative Divorce might be less disruptive for clients who have mental health issues. “Divorce can be particularly traumatic for spouses with serious mental health problems,” said CCDG Psychologist Abby Cole. “They may fault themselves for the breakdown […]
This week is Mental Illness Awareness Week. When it comes to divorce when mental illness is involved, a Collaborative Divorce attorney might be able to work differently with clients who have mental health issues. “During the collaborative process, mental health issues can be more easily identified and addressed than in the conventional divorce process. The […]
This week is Mental Illness Awareness Week. When it comes to divorce when mental illness is involved, a Collaborative Divorce might be a helpful approach for clients who have mental health issues. In a Collaborative Divorce, partners are able to discuss mental health conditions and needs with safety and understanding, without fear of it being […]
This week is Mental Illness Awareness Week. When considering divorce when mental illness is involved, Collaborative Divorce can be a very successful approach. “Couples who elect to participate in the Collaborative Divorce process often do so because they want to protect their children from the stress of drawn out and adversarial legal proceedings,” said CCDG […]
Collaborative Divorce is a team approach that resolves disputes without going to court. Here are some of the main differences between Collaborative and Litigation. Who Controls the Process Collaborative: You and your spouse control the process and make final decisions Litigation: Judge controls the process and makes final decisions Degree of Adversity Collaborative: You and your […]
Reflecting on the celebration known as National Children’s Day in the United States, which happens annually in June, we in Collaborative Divorce recognize the need to refocus on the important things. Taking one day may not be enough, but using it as an opportunity to redirect behaviors may be an important step in a child’s […]
By Wendy Habelow, Ph.D. In traditional litigated/adversarial divorces, in “cooperative” divorces in which two attorneys try to work cooperatively together, or even in attorney-led mediations, there is no one trained to understand and support couples with mental health issues. In Collaborative Divorce, a mental health expert, sometimes referred to as the coach, always is part […]
by Attorney Robert B. Fried “Brad Pitt and Angelina Jolie’s Divorce Fight Could Last 6 More Years, Cost Millions.” I just saw that header. What it doesn’t say is that their nasty divorce battle will be played out in public and everyone will be able to read about their dirty laundry and who did what to […]
By Susan Busby Divorces for older couples are not uniform. Because each couple is different, age is sometimes not the most prominent factor. Many cases with older clients present issues related to retirement income. For example, pension elections and social security elections may have already been made based on being a couple. When assets are […]
Collaborative Divorce Offers Services & Resources to Prioritize the Needs of Children HARTFORD, Conn; March 2, 2021 – Each year, March 2 marks World Teen Mental Wellness Day, a day dedicated to raising greater awareness of mental health issues among teens and providing education about removing stigmas surrounding preventative mental health. When it comes to […]
By Attorney Robert Fried Divorce doesn’t get any easier as people age. While there are usually more assets to divide, financial security is of greater concern as people get closer to retirement. Do they have enough assets to provide financial security in retirement? Do they need to change their portfolio to create that? Are social […]
By Attorney Ann Newman & Brenda Larkin CDFA The collaborative process includes a team of professionals: an attorney for each party, a neutral financial professional and a mental health coach. Each professional offers a unique prospective and is extremely helpful. The role of the attorney in a collaborative divorce is to: Educate you about the […]
By Attorney Ann Newman The month of January tends to see a spike in divorce filings, so it is no coincidence that January is recognized as National Child-Centered Divorce Awareness Month, a time dedicated to alerting parents about the effects of divorce on children – and how to prevent emotional and psychological damage to children […]
By Laura Renfro The month of January tends to see a spike in divorce filings, so it is no coincidence that January is recognized as National Child-Centered Divorce Awareness Month, a time dedicated to alerting parents about the effects of divorce on children – and how to prevent emotional and psychological damage to children during […]
CCDG’s Divorce Experts Recognize ‘Children are a Parent’s Most Precious Gift’ and Offer Services & Resources to Prioritize the Needs of Children The month of January tends to see a spike in divorce filings, so it is no coincidence that January is recognized as National Child-Centered Divorce Awareness Month, a time dedicated to alerting parents […]
By Attorney Ann Newman “We love holidays but let’s face it, holidays are stressful. Throw in Covid and a divorce and the 2020 holidays are throwing many folks into a complete spin. You may be feeling overwhelmed, alone, sad and maybe a bit guilty. There are a couple of things you can do to get […]
By Robert B. Fried In negotiated divorces, whether mediation or collaborative divorce, you can still make the decision as to which year you get divorced. But before you do, there are a number of tax-related issues to consider. First, if you are thinking of a divorce in 2020, will the family unit (whether together or […]
By Elaine Ducharme Ph.D, ABPP We have all been dealing with the many consequences of Covid for over seven months. As winter approaches and the numbers of cases continue to rise, it seems that Covid fatigue is just getting worse. People are frustrated, tired, angry, and sad. Very little feels like normal. Life seems all […]
In normal circumstances, separating or divorcing families face new and daunting challenges during the holidays. This year is even more complicated. When it comes to divorce and the holiday season, consider how a Collaborative Divorce may be be particularly effective for families, children and the parents who may be alone. “In non-Covid times, the holidays […]
In normal circumstances, separating or divorcing families face new and daunting challenges during the holidays. This year is even more complicated. When it comes to divorce and the holiday season, consider how a Collaborative Divorce may be be particularly effective for families, children and the parents who may be alone. “The collaborative process can be […]
In normal circumstances, separating or divorcing families face new and daunting challenges during the holidays. This year is even more complicated. When it comes to divorce and the holiday season, consider how a Collaborative Divorce may be be particularly effective for families, children and the parents who may be alone. “Many families are struggling to […]
In normal circumstances, separating or divorcing families face new and daunting challenges during the holidays. This year is even more complicated. When it comes to divorce and the holiday season, consider how a Collaborative Divorce may be be particularly effective for families, children and the parents who may be alone. “Thinking about not being with […]
By Deborah R. Eisenberg and Kate W. Haakonsen Divorce ranks as one of life’s more scary and stressful events. Most people want it over with as soon as possible. Almost everyone ends up feeling that it took too long. Currently, Hartford Superior Court’s Family Division is laboring with backlogs of hundreds of Pre-Judgment Motions, Contested […]
Congrats to CCDG attorney Allenston Sheridan Jr., honored with high standards of service to the profession, ethics, scholarship, and devotion to clients with the Hartford County Bar Association’s Judge Maxwell Heiman Memorial Award. His practice includes collaborative and mediated divorce matters as well as fully litigated cases regarding finances and child custody issues throughout the […]
This week is Mental Illness Awareness Week. When it comes to divorce when mental illness is involved, a Collaborative Divorce attorney might be able to work differently with clients who have mental health issues. “Support for the individual who is mentally or emotional compromised is inherent in the Collaborative process. The mental health professional attends […]
This week is Mental Illness Awareness Week. When it comes to divorce when mental illness is involved, a Collaborative Divorce attorney might be able to work differently with clients who have mental health issues. “Support for the individual who is mentally or emotional compromised is inherent in the Collaborative process. The mental health professional attends […]
This week is Mental Illness Awareness Week. When considering divorce when mental illness is involved, Collaborative Divorce can be a very successful approach. “Collaborative is thought of as ‘divorce with dignity,’ where respect, patience and compassion are central tenets of the approach and process. These tenets are especially evident when one of the partners struggles […]
FOR IMMEDIATE RELEASE Sept. 9, 2020 Collaborative Divorce Can Help Parents Find Fair Resolution in These Complex Circumstances HARTFORD, Conn; Sept. 9, 2020 – Even in the best of times, going back to school in the fall is a challenge for kids and parents, and it is especially hard for those families starting school […]
By Dr. Elaine Ducharme Back to School 2020 If this were a normal year, parents would be shouting with joy that their kids were going back to school. If this were a normal year, kids would just be shouting. But this is not a normal year. This is 2020, the year of Covid 19. The […]
By Edward Goldberg I fondly remember the “good ole days.” You know, the days when we would have in person meetings in our conference room with clients without a care about social distancing and wearing masks. When talking to a couple about the financial aspects of their divorce, specifically division of property, I would draw […]
By Attorney Felicia C. Hunt Individuals are experiencing unprecedented challenges by not having court as a form of recourse for serious issues they are facing. Although the courthouse doors are open, the limitations on old procedures can leave families feeling that they do not options or the ability to move forward. With a quick look […]
By Laura Renfro, LMFT Let’s talk about how you and your former spouse, the only other parent of your children, can make healthy decisions about how to proceed with making mutual decisions regarding next steps for your children during Covid 19. As of the writing of this article, Connecticut’s Gov. Ned Lamont has authorized […]
By Attorney Robert B. Fried Nine of the top 10 golfers in the world descend on Cromwell, Conn., this week and 100 more will be here soon for the annual Travelers’ Championship. This is the third PGA event since professional golf did a reboot two weeks ago. And it is the third tournament that will […]
For Immediate Release June 8, 2020 CCDG Divorce Attorneys: Now Is Actually the Best Time to Get a Divorce! HARTFORD, Conn; June 8, 2020 – In response to the current pandemic situation, family courts in Connecticut remain closed, except for emergencies such as restraining orders and ex parte matters. Other motions will not be […]
If you are worried about your child or teen…Help is only a phone call away. Child and Adolescent Behavioral Health Referral Resources 1. Mobile Crisis Intervention Services Free behavioral health crisis services, including suicide assessment (under age 18; for those 18 and older, refer to adult services) This service will help identify and connect you with […]
CCDG Licensed Psychologist Wendy F. Habelow Shares Insights to Help Divorced Parents Cope with the Current Situation HARTFORD, Conn; April 23, 2020 – As Americans struggle to navigate the new reality of social distancing during the Covid 19 pandemic, divorced and separated parents have the added stress of figuring out how to coparent effectively, […]
By Attorney Jennifer Davis During this pandemic, Collaborative Divorce is your divorce option! CCDG can still do 95 percent of a divorce without the courts, which are needed only to finalize the separation agreement as its orders. So we can still initiate the paperwork, exchange documents, negotiate, make interim parenting orders, etc. Once the court […]
FOR IMMEDIATE RELEASE April 8, 2020 CCDG Divorce Attorney Robert Fried Explains the Current Situation HARTFORD, Conn; April 8, 2020 – In response to current pandemic situation, the State of Connecticut has closed all but 10 courthouses and limited the matters to be heard, including family court proceedings, to urgent concerns such as restraining […]
By Attorney Robert B. Fried I think we have all heard far more than we would like regarding the impact of COVID-19….with no immediate end in sight. And as an attorney who devotes most of his practice to family law, I have heard the predictions that with so many families staying home, more couple […]
By Attorney Robert B. Fried With today’s uncertain times and most court houses closed and/or doing limited business, I have had a number of people ask if they can do their divorces online. I can only speak for Connecticut. Since December 15, 2015, Connecticut has e-filing so the case immediately appears on the […]
Leaders from the American Academy of Matrimonial Lawyers (AAML) and AFCC have released guidelines for coparenting during the COVID-19 pandemic. Seven Guidelines for Parents Who Are Divorced/Separated and Sharing Custody of Children During the COVID 19 Pandemic From the leaders of groups that deal with families in crisis: BE HEALTHY. Comply with all CDC and […]
By Robert B. Fried March 25, 2020 I often tell my clients that divorce is contagious and can multiply whether during good times or bad. So, if you have a pending divorce in Connecticut, what can you do now in the wake of this ongoing health crisis? Most Connecticut courts are closed. Thirteen buildings remain […]
Dr. Elaine Ducharme Offers Helpful Tips for Coping with Complicated Feelings By Dr. Elaine Ducharme March 16, 2020 We are clearly in uncharted waters. Many of us are feeling anxious, overwhelmed, confused by conflicting media reports, sad about cancellation of important events and not quite sure what to do. Parents are wondering how to […]
FOR IMMEDIATE RELEASE March 13, 2020 Save Money, Stay Out of Court & Incorporate a Financial Professional to Plan for Future HARTFORD, Conn; March 13, 2020 – Tax time is always a hassle, and some years can bring more challenges than others. Couples who have recently separated or divorced will face many new financial […]
Unlike a litigated divorce, Collaborative Divorce is less confrontational and focuses on the needs of the couple and their children. If you’re thinking that a Collaborative Divorce may be the right choice for your family to get through one of life’s most difficult transitions, start by considering the following: Do you and your spouse want to […]
FOR IMMEDIATE RELEASE Jan. 28, 2020 Get Through the Romantic Season with Advice from CCDG’s Legal, Financial & Mental Health Professionals HARTFORD, Conn; Jan. 28, 2020 – No matter what time of the year it happens, divorce is unpleasant. But those dealing with a divorce around Valentine’s Day can find the romantic imagery of […]
FOR IMMEDIATE RELEASE Dec. 9, 2019 CCDG’s Divorce Experts Recognize ‘Children Are More Precious Than Any Possession’ and Offer Services & Resources to Prioritize the Needs of Children HARTFORD, Conn; Dec. 9, 2019 – The month of January tends to see a spike in divorce filings, so it is no coincidence that January is […]
FOR IMMEDIATE RELEASE Nov. 20, 2019 CCDG’s Divorce Expert Shares Suggestions for More Joyous Holidays During Changes HARTFORD, Conn; Nov. 20, 2019 – The holiday season is often stressful, and for those going through or having just gone through a divorce or separation, the season can induce even more stress, intensify negative emotions, and […]
Holidays can be overwhelming for families at all stages of separation and divorce. Even for those who co-parent well, kid-centered holidays like Halloween can still present a number of challenges. But it is most important to make sure the children are happy and secure with the knowledge that both parents are there for them. Here […]
FOR IMMEDIATE RELEASE Oct. 18, 2019 Local Divorce Experts Spotlight the Benefits of Collaborative Divorce During National Domestic Violence Awareness Month HARTFORD, Conn; Oct. 18, 2019 – According to the National Coalition Against Domestic Violence, 1 in 3 women and 1 in 4 men have experienced some form of physical violence by an […]
FOR IMMEDIATE RELEASE Sept. 26, 2019 CCDG’s Local Divorce Coach & Child Specialist Bruce Freedman, Ph.D., Shares Family Strategies to Prepare for the Upcoming Year HARTFORD, CONN; SEPT. 26, 2019 – It’s time to go back-to-school for children and families, and that brings a lot of activities for parents to manage. Extracurricular activities are a […]
Dr. Elaine Ducharme Offers Helpful Guidelines on Step-Parenting By Dr. Elaine Ducharme As a result of a skyrocketing divorce rate and many individuals delaying marriage well into their thirties, step parenting is becoming increasingly common. 50% of first marriages fail. The number is even higher in second marriages. Initially, a new marriage may seem very […]
For Immediate Release Aug. 13, 2019 Local Expert: Collaborative Divorce Takes Whole Family Approach to Resolving Conflict HARTFORD, Conn.; Aug. 13, 2019 – Vacations, outdoor events, the beginning of a new school year – for many, August is synonymous with family time. But for some, this month marks the season for divorce. Research from […]
Collaborative Practice as a Spiritual Practice What do we think about as practitioners when we consider adding or maintaining a collaborative component to our overall law practice? Certainly there are the basic considerations of marketing and cost-effectiveness that make any practice component financially justifiable and for many, the analysis may end there. Beyond that, however, […]
HOW TO MANAGE THE MADNESS OF MOVING AFTER DIVORCE -WHAT STEPS TO TAKE TO REDUCE STRESS ON CHILDREN– (HARTFORD, CT)- March 28, 2013– Disruption in routine and residence are two changes that come with any divorce. For children of divorcing parents this shift in schedule can be especially stressful if not managed properly. Connecticut […]
HOW TO HELP COLLEGE KIDS COPE WITH DIVORCING PARENTS –IMPACT OF EMPTY NEST DIVORCE DYNAMIC– (HARTFORD, CT)- September 30, 2013– When there are problems in a marriage, children are often the glue that holds couples together. However, increasingly once the kids fly the coop, their parents undergo some life changes of their own, taking […]
The Unexpected Collaborator Jennifer Davis I volunteered to create an icebreaker for a recent retreat for about 25 multi-disciplinary collaborative professionals. I chose a simple concept – tossing a ball of yarn to a participant, who would then tell a little bit about themselves before tossing it to another participant. Some folks were a little […]
Connecticut CollaborativeDivorce Group 2015 Retreat; Divorce: What’s Love Got to Do With It? Inspiration from IACP By Elaine Ducharme, PhD, ABPP The Connecticut Collaborative Divorce Group is an interdisciplinary group of 30 professionals devoted to helping families divorce with dignity. This year we held our Third Retreat. Our Retreats have been planned as a way […]
COLLABORATIVE DIVORCE UNITES RATHER THAN DIVIDES –ALTERNATIVE APPROACH TO DIVORCE HELPS ALIGN PROFESSIONALS OF VARIOUS DISCIPLINES- (HARTFORD, CT)- June 13, 2013- When many people think about the professionals managing divorce, they only envision attorneys. Presently though, some of the most amicable divorces are achieved through an approach known as collaborative divorce. It reduces stress […]
HOW TO DIVORCE WITH DIPLOMACY -CT COLLABORATIVE DIVORCE GROUP OFFERS OPTIONS FOR FAMILY FRIENDLY DIVORCE- (HARTFORD, CT)- May 23, 2012- May is one of the busiest months of the year for weddings. However, statistics show that nearly half of all those new unions will ultimately end in divorce. Connecticut Collaborative Divorce Group is an […]
How to Build an Effective Team Deborah R. Eisenberg, Edward Goldberg and Abby Golomb Cole Case Illustration of a Well-Coordinated Team Mist hung heavily on a chilly New England morning, as six of us sat around a conference table, considering financial projections for a divorcing couple. The six included two lawyers, a divorce […]
Tips for Better Communication During Divorce & BeyondJune 22, 2022 - 5:39 pm
Why Collaborative Can Help Couples Communicate During a DivorceJune 22, 2022 - 5:04 pm
Tips for Better Communication During Divorce & Beyond
/in Collaborative Divorce, Education, Emotional Aspects of Divorce/by Wendy Habelow, Ph.D.By Wendy Habelow Even under the best of circumstances, communication can be strained as a relationship is ending. Yet keeping the lines of communication open is essential for reaching an agreement in a divorce. Collaborative is ideally suited to help divorcing partners learn more effective communication strategies and is fundamentally designed to provide for face-to-face […]
Why Collaborative Can Help Couples Communicate During a Divorce
/in Collaborative Divorce/by Attorney Robert B. FriedBy Attorney Robert B. Fried The most common complaints I hear at the beginning of a divorce are “We can’t communicate” and “He/she won’t talk to me.” The truth be known: Many marriages break down because the parties have grown apart and they no longer talk to each other. The professionals in a Collaborative Divorce […]
Dr. Elaine Ducharme’s Tips to Keep Men Emotionally & Physically Healthy
/in Collaborative Divorce, Education, Emotional Aspects of Divorce, Support/by Elaine Ducharme, Ph.D.By Elaine Ducharme, Ph.D. Dozens of studies over the past several decades have shown that men of all ages and ethnicities are less likely than women to seek help for all sorts of problems, including physical and emotional issues. This is often generational. Boys learn from their dads who learned from their dads that talking […]
National Children’s Day: How to Minimize Conflict, Honor Kids When Divorcing
/in Collaborative Divorce, Education, Emotional Aspects of Divorce/by Wendy Habelow, Ph.D.June 12 is National Children’s Day, a day on which we honor the children in our lives by slowing down and refocusing on important things. Collaborative Divorce recognizes the need to focus on children, not only in terms of divorce, but also how children develop their character and what parents need to keep in mind. […]
Navigating a Solo Financial Future: A Few Tips for the Newly Divorced
/in Financial Aspects of Divorce/by Brenda Larkin, CDFABy Brenda Larkin Divorce is a stressful situation, and the financial changes can be overwhelming. Take a deep breath and remember there are solutions and strategies to make sound decisions about your money. This is YOUR financial journey. Time to take charge of your journey. Talk with a financial professional to discuss your fears, goals, […]
Collaborative Divorce: A Popular Alternative to Litigation
/in Collaborative Divorce, Divorce, Emotional Aspects of Divorce/by Attorney Robert B. FriedBy Attorney Robert B. Fried The divorce process takes an emotional and financial toll on the parties going through it. And, unfortunately, the emotional aspects can affect the children as well who are seeing their world turned upside down. Where are the children going to live? With whom? When will they see the other parent? […]
Collaborative: Supporting & Empowering Clients to Shape Their Future
/in Collaborative Divorce, Divorce, Education, Emotional Aspects of Divorce/by Wendy Habelow, Ph.D.By Psychologist Wendy F. Habelow Collaborative Divorce was developed as an alternative to traditional litigation, where attorneys and judges play a large role in determining outcomes for clients and families. In contrast, the Collaborative process is an alternative to court-based divorce. Here, clients are supported and empowered to shape their own destiny and the future […]
Why Many Couples Opt for Collaborative Divorce
/in Collaborative Divorce, Education, Emotional Aspects of Divorce, Support/by Brenda Larkin, CDFACollaborative Divorce is a team approach that resolves disputes without going to court. Beyond avoiding the high cost and stress of high conflict litigation, there are countless benefits to this style of divorce. Collaborative is a civil and mature approach to divorce that simultaneously recognizes the end of a marriage and the continuing relationship, obligations […]
CCDG Psychologist Habelow: Collaborative is Great Option for Gray Divorce
/in Collaborative Divorce, Emotional Aspects of Divorce/by Wendy Habelow, Ph.D.By Psychologist Wendy F. Habelow A gray divorce refers to couples who decide to part ways over the age of 50, often after a long-term marriage. When it comes to gray divorces, it is important to keep in mind that although the developmental needs of adult children are quite different than minor children, they often […]
CCDG Psychologist Abby Cole on Gray Divorce
/in Collaborative Divorce, Emotional Aspects of Divorce/by Abby G. Cole, Ph.D.By Psychologist Abby Cole Gray Divorce is particularly sad because couples have shared so many years together, and they had every intention of sustaining their marriage “until death do us part.” Their sense of identity is rooted in the marriage and the family they created, and it is difficult to envision a future alone. People […]
Collaborative Divorce: Even Celebrities Can Divorce With Dignity & Privacy
/in Collaborative Divorce, Emotional Aspects of Divorce/by Attorney Robert B. FriedBy Robert B. Fried Angry people do not settle divorce cases quietly — cases in point: Tiger Woods, Christie Brinkley, Charlie Sheen, Kim Kardashian, Angelina Jolie — the list goes on. And we sit here reading about the rich and famous and who is having adulterous relationships, who is using drugs, who is physically abusing […]
Divorce, the Holidays & the Pandemic: Why Collaborative Divorce Can Be Particularly Helpful
/in Collaborative Divorce, Divorce, Education, Emotional Aspects of Divorce/by Bruce Freedman, Ph.D.In normal circumstances, separating or divorcing families face new and daunting challenges during the holidays. The pandemic makes these situations even more complicated, but last year taught us a few strategies to make the season a little less difficult for coparenting and to keep things civil under such added stress. The Collaborative Divorce process inherently […]
Co-parenting 101: Co-parenting Through the Holidays
/in Collaborative Divorce, Divorce, Emotional Aspects of Divorce, Support/by Kathryn BissonnetteBy Attorney Kathryn Bissonnette The holidays are a stressful time for everyone, but especially for families that are experiencing a change in family dynamics due to a divorce or custody case. For the children in the middle of a divorce or custody action, the holidays can seem unbearable. Depending on their ages, children may feel […]
CCDG Attorney Fried: Should You Get Divorced in 2021 Or Wait Until Next Year?
/in Collaborative Divorce, Divorce, Education, Financial Aspects of Divorce/by Attorney Robert B. FriedBy Attorney Robert Fried Once a decision is made to divorce, the first question I hear is, “How quickly can we get it done?” But once you get to November, the question should be whether it makes sense to divorce in 2021 or wait until January, 2022. If you decide to divorce in 2021, who […]
CCDG Attorney Busby: Collaborative Can Help Divorced Couples Cope During Holidays
/in Collaborative Divorce, Emotional Aspects of Divorce/by Attorney Susan V. BusbyBy Attorney Susan Busby “The collaborative process can help individual clients cope during the holidays. Because they are not being made to feel like adversaries, couples are often more able to craft a holiday plan that benefits both of them. For example, many couples still celebrate together. This is especially true when children are involved. […]
CCDG Attorney Busby: Divorced Families Can Ease Holiday Discomfort By Shifting Focus to Children
/in Collaborative Divorce, Emotional Aspects of Divorce/by Attorney Susan V. BusbyBy Attorney Susan Busby “The Collaborative process can help ease discomfort around holiday gatherings by encouraging clients to put the focus on children when creating a holiday parenting plan. When the focus is on the children, then it is more likely than not that holiday traditions can be honored for the sake of the children. […]
CCDG: 3 Ways to Divorce in CT – Litigation, Mediation & Collaborative Divorce
/in Collaborative Divorce, Divorce, Education, Emotional Aspects of Divorce/by Elaine Ducharme, Ph.D.CCDG Psychologists Wendy Habelow, Ph.D., and Elaine Ducharme, Ph.D., detail the three ways to divorce in Connecticut: litigation, mediation & #CollaborativeDivorce, which is much more family oriented and allows for more control over the outcome and the health & well being of the family.
Collaborative Divorce: Legal, Financial & Emotional Support
/in Collaborative Divorce, Education, Emotional Aspects of Divorce, Financial Aspects of Divorce/by Wendy Habelow, Ph.D.CCDG Psychologists Wendy Habelow, Ph.D., and Elaine Ducharme, Ph.D., discuss the three components of a divorce: legal, financial & emotional — and how #CollaborativeDivorce addresses them.
Collaborative Divorce & the Role of a Divorce Coach
/in Collaborative Divorce, Education/by Elaine Ducharme, Ph.D.CCDG Family Law Attorney Robert B. Fried and CCDG Psychologist Elaine Ducharme, Ph.D., discuss the three components of a divorce: Legal, financial & emotional. If any one of these areas is not addressed, the divorce can be more painful and destructive for everyone, especially the kids.
Collaborative Divorce: It’s a Much Better Way to Go!
/in Collaborative Divorce, Education/by Attorney Robert B. FriedCCDG Psychologist Wendy Habelow, Ph.D. and CCDG Family Law Attorney Attorney Robert B. Fried discuss the advantage of Collaborative Divorce and why this is one of the highlights of their work.
Collaborative Divorce: A Respectful Process & Swift Alternative to Backlogged Court System
/in Collaborative Divorce, Education/by Wendy Habelow, Ph.D.In March 2020, Covid affected every facet of our society, including closing the courts. With a backlogged system, it’s still difficult to get into the courts. CCDG Psychologist Wendy Habelow, Ph.D. and CCDG Family Law Attorney Attorney Robert B. Fried discuss the Connecticut Family Court System and the advantage of Collaborative Divorce now more than […]
CCDG Psychologist Elaine Ducharme on Covid, Divorce & Mental Health
/in Collaborative Divorce, Emotional Aspects of Divorce/by Elaine Ducharme, Ph.D.“Covid has stressed the majority of individuals and families. When divorce is added to this mix it is not unusual to find one or both parents exhibiting signs of anxiety or other mental health issues,” said CCDG psychologist Dr. Elaine Ducharme. “During a traditional litigated divorce there is often an attempt to use a mental […]
CCDG Psychologist Abby Cole on Mental Illness Awareness Week: Collaborative Supports All Parties in Divorce
/in Collaborative Divorce, Emotional Aspects of Divorce/by Abby G. Cole, Ph.D.This week is Mental Illness Awareness Week. When it comes to divorce when mental illness is involved, a Collaborative Divorce might be less disruptive for clients who have mental health issues. “Divorce can be particularly traumatic for spouses with serious mental health problems,” said CCDG Psychologist Abby Cole. “They may fault themselves for the breakdown […]
CCDG Attorney Deborah Eisenberg on Mental Illness Awareness Week: Collaborative Can Help Identify, Address Mental Health Issues During Divorce
/in Collaborative Divorce, Emotional Aspects of Divorce/by Attorney Deborah R. EisenbergThis week is Mental Illness Awareness Week. When it comes to divorce when mental illness is involved, a Collaborative Divorce attorney might be able to work differently with clients who have mental health issues. “During the collaborative process, mental health issues can be more easily identified and addressed than in the conventional divorce process. The […]
CCDG Psychologist Wendy Habelow on Mental Illness Awareness Week: Mental Health Professional Provides Support in Collaborative Divorce
/in Collaborative Divorce, Emotional Aspects of Divorce/by Wendy Habelow, Ph.D.This week is Mental Illness Awareness Week. When it comes to divorce when mental illness is involved, a Collaborative Divorce might be a helpful approach for clients who have mental health issues. In a Collaborative Divorce, partners are able to discuss mental health conditions and needs with safety and understanding, without fear of it being […]
CCDG Psychologist Traci Cipriano on Mental Illness Awareness Week: Collaborative Divorce Benefits the Whole Family
/in Collaborative Divorce, Emotional Aspects of Divorce/by Traci CiprianoThis week is Mental Illness Awareness Week. When considering divorce when mental illness is involved, Collaborative Divorce can be a very successful approach. “Couples who elect to participate in the Collaborative Divorce process often do so because they want to protect their children from the stress of drawn out and adversarial legal proceedings,” said CCDG […]
Divorce, a Comparison: Collaborative vs. Litigation
/in Collaborative Divorce, Divorce/by Brenda Larkin, CDFACollaborative Divorce is a team approach that resolves disputes without going to court. Here are some of the main differences between Collaborative and Litigation. Who Controls the Process Collaborative: You and your spouse control the process and make final decisions Litigation: Judge controls the process and makes final decisions Degree of Adversity Collaborative: You and your […]
National Children’s Day: How to Honor the Children in Your Life When Divorcing
/in Collaborative Divorce/by Wendy Habelow, Ph.D.Reflecting on the celebration known as National Children’s Day in the United States, which happens annually in June, we in Collaborative Divorce recognize the need to refocus on the important things. Taking one day may not be enough, but using it as an opportunity to redirect behaviors may be an important step in a child’s […]
CCDG Psychologist Habelow on Collaborative Divorce & Mental Health Awareness Month
/in Collaborative Divorce, Divorce, Emotional Aspects of Divorce/by Wendy Habelow, Ph.D.By Wendy Habelow, Ph.D. In traditional litigated/adversarial divorces, in “cooperative” divorces in which two attorneys try to work cooperatively together, or even in attorney-led mediations, there is no one trained to understand and support couples with mental health issues. In Collaborative Divorce, a mental health expert, sometimes referred to as the coach, always is part […]
Nasty Pitt-Jolie Divorce Will Play Out in Public – But Not All Divorces Have To
/in Collaborative Divorce, Divorce, Emotional Aspects of Divorce/by Attorney Robert B. Friedby Attorney Robert B. Fried “Brad Pitt and Angelina Jolie’s Divorce Fight Could Last 6 More Years, Cost Millions.” I just saw that header. What it doesn’t say is that their nasty divorce battle will be played out in public and everyone will be able to read about their dirty laundry and who did what to […]
Attorney Susan Busby: Collaborative Divorce Addresses Asset Concerns for Older Couples
/in Collaborative Divorce, Divorce, Financial Aspects of Divorce/by Attorney Susan V. BusbyBy Susan Busby Divorces for older couples are not uniform. Because each couple is different, age is sometimes not the most prominent factor. Many cases with older clients present issues related to retirement income. For example, pension elections and social security elections may have already been made based on being a couple. When assets are […]
CCDG Divorce Experts Share Parenting Insight on World Teen Mental Wellness Day
/in Collaborative Divorce, Emotional Aspects of Divorce/by Wendy Habelow, Ph.D.Collaborative Divorce Offers Services & Resources to Prioritize the Needs of Children HARTFORD, Conn; March 2, 2021 – Each year, March 2 marks World Teen Mental Wellness Day, a day dedicated to raising greater awareness of mental health issues among teens and providing education about removing stigmas surrounding preventative mental health. When it comes to […]
CCDG Attorney Robert Fried On Gray Divorce
/in Collaborative Divorce, Divorce, Financial Aspects of Divorce/by Attorney Robert B. FriedBy Attorney Robert Fried Divorce doesn’t get any easier as people age. While there are usually more assets to divide, financial security is of greater concern as people get closer to retirement. Do they have enough assets to provide financial security in retirement? Do they need to change their portfolio to create that? Are social […]
Why an Attorney and Financial Professional Are Priceless in the Collaborative Process
/in Collaborative Divorce, Financial Aspects of Divorce/by Brenda Larkin, CDFABy Attorney Ann Newman & Brenda Larkin CDFA The collaborative process includes a team of professionals: an attorney for each party, a neutral financial professional and a mental health coach. Each professional offers a unique prospective and is extremely helpful. The role of the attorney in a collaborative divorce is to: Educate you about the […]
CCDG Attorney Newman on Nat’l Child-Centered Divorce Awareness Month
/in Collaborative Divorce, Divorce/by Ann NewmanBy Attorney Ann Newman The month of January tends to see a spike in divorce filings, so it is no coincidence that January is recognized as National Child-Centered Divorce Awareness Month, a time dedicated to alerting parents about the effects of divorce on children – and how to prevent emotional and psychological damage to children […]
Post-Divorce Transition Management: The Complicated Mechanics of Getting a Newly Single Person Financial Independence
/in Collaborative Divorce, Divorce, Education, Emotional Aspects of Divorce, Financial Aspects of Divorce/by Edward M. Goldberg, CFP, ChFC, CDFACCDG Therapist Renfro on Nat’l Child-Centered Divorce Awareness Month
/in Collaborative Divorce, Divorce, Emotional Aspects of Divorce/by Laura Renfro, LMFTBy Laura Renfro The month of January tends to see a spike in divorce filings, so it is no coincidence that January is recognized as National Child-Centered Divorce Awareness Month, a time dedicated to alerting parents about the effects of divorce on children – and how to prevent emotional and psychological damage to children during […]
January is National Child-Centered Divorce Awareness Month
/in Collaborative Divorce, Divorce, Education, Emotional Aspects of Divorce/by Wendy Habelow, Ph.D.CCDG’s Divorce Experts Recognize ‘Children are a Parent’s Most Precious Gift’ and Offer Services & Resources to Prioritize the Needs of Children The month of January tends to see a spike in divorce filings, so it is no coincidence that January is recognized as National Child-Centered Divorce Awareness Month, a time dedicated to alerting parents […]
CCDG Attorney Newman: Holidays Are Stressful When Divorcing
/in Collaborative Divorce, Divorce/by Ann NewmanBy Attorney Ann Newman “We love holidays but let’s face it, holidays are stressful. Throw in Covid and a divorce and the 2020 holidays are throwing many folks into a complete spin. You may be feeling overwhelmed, alone, sad and maybe a bit guilty. There are a couple of things you can do to get […]
CCDG Attorney Fried: Should You Get Divorced in 2020 Or Wait for 2021?
/in Collaborative Divorce, Divorce, Financial Aspects of Divorce/by Attorney Robert B. FriedBy Robert B. Fried In negotiated divorces, whether mediation or collaborative divorce, you can still make the decision as to which year you get divorced. But before you do, there are a number of tax-related issues to consider. First, if you are thinking of a divorce in 2020, will the family unit (whether together or […]
How to Cope with Increasing Covid Fatigue as Winter Approaches
/in Collaborative Divorce, Divorce, Emotional Aspects of Divorce, Support/by Elaine Ducharme, Ph.D.By Elaine Ducharme Ph.D, ABPP We have all been dealing with the many consequences of Covid for over seven months. As winter approaches and the numbers of cases continue to rise, it seems that Covid fatigue is just getting worse. People are frustrated, tired, angry, and sad. Very little feels like normal. Life seems all […]
CCDG Psychologist Habelow on Divorce & Holidays: Parents Must Work Together to Help Children Cope
/in Collaborative Divorce, Divorce, Emotional Aspects of Divorce, Support/by Wendy Habelow, Ph.D.In normal circumstances, separating or divorcing families face new and daunting challenges during the holidays. This year is even more complicated. When it comes to divorce and the holiday season, consider how a Collaborative Divorce may be be particularly effective for families, children and the parents who may be alone. “In non-Covid times, the holidays […]
CCDG Attorney Eisenberg on Divorce & Holidays: Collaborative Can Be Especially Effective for Interfaith Families
/in Collaborative Divorce, Divorce, Emotional Aspects of Divorce/by Attorney Deborah R. EisenbergIn normal circumstances, separating or divorcing families face new and daunting challenges during the holidays. This year is even more complicated. When it comes to divorce and the holiday season, consider how a Collaborative Divorce may be be particularly effective for families, children and the parents who may be alone. “The collaborative process can be […]
CCDG Psychologist Freedman on Divorce & Holidays: Divorced Families Face Challenges This Year
/in Collaborative Divorce, Divorce/by Bruce Freedman, Ph.D.In normal circumstances, separating or divorcing families face new and daunting challenges during the holidays. This year is even more complicated. When it comes to divorce and the holiday season, consider how a Collaborative Divorce may be be particularly effective for families, children and the parents who may be alone. “Many families are struggling to […]
CCDG Attorney Donna Buttler on Divorce & Holidays: Collaborative Can Soften the Hardship
/in Collaborative Divorce, Divorce, Emotional Aspects of Divorce/by Attorney Donna L. ButtlerIn normal circumstances, separating or divorcing families face new and daunting challenges during the holidays. This year is even more complicated. When it comes to divorce and the holiday season, consider how a Collaborative Divorce may be be particularly effective for families, children and the parents who may be alone. “Thinking about not being with […]
Alternative Dispute Resolution Can Speed Up Divorces in a Back-logged Court System
/in Announcements, Collaborative Divorce, Divorce/by Attorney Deborah R. EisenbergBy Deborah R. Eisenberg and Kate W. Haakonsen Divorce ranks as one of life’s more scary and stressful events. Most people want it over with as soon as possible. Almost everyone ends up feeling that it took too long. Currently, Hartford Superior Court’s Family Division is laboring with backlogs of hundreds of Pre-Judgment Motions, Contested […]
CCDG Attorney Sheridan Receives Bar Award
/in Announcements, Collaborative Divorce, Divorce/by Attorney Allenston Sheridan Jr.Congrats to CCDG attorney Allenston Sheridan Jr., honored with high standards of service to the profession, ethics, scholarship, and devotion to clients with the Hartford County Bar Association’s Judge Maxwell Heiman Memorial Award. His practice includes collaborative and mediated divorce matters as well as fully litigated cases regarding finances and child custody issues throughout the […]
CCDG Attorney Donna Buttler on Mental Illness Awareness Week: Collaborative Divorce Benefits the Whole Family
/in Collaborative Divorce, Divorce, Education, Emotional Aspects of Divorce, Support/by Attorney Donna L. ButtlerThis week is Mental Illness Awareness Week. When it comes to divorce when mental illness is involved, a Collaborative Divorce attorney might be able to work differently with clients who have mental health issues. “Support for the individual who is mentally or emotional compromised is inherent in the Collaborative process. The mental health professional attends […]
CCDG Attorney Donna Buttler on Mental Illness Awareness Week: Collaborative Divorce Benefits the Whole Family
/in Announcements, Collaborative Divorce, Divorce, Education, Emotional Aspects of Divorce, Support/by Attorney Donna L. ButtlerThis week is Mental Illness Awareness Week. When it comes to divorce when mental illness is involved, a Collaborative Divorce attorney might be able to work differently with clients who have mental health issues. “Support for the individual who is mentally or emotional compromised is inherent in the Collaborative process. The mental health professional attends […]
CCDG Psychologist Wendy Habelow on Mental Illness Awareness Week: Collaborative is ‘Divorce With Dignity’
/in Collaborative Divorce, Divorce, Education, Emotional Aspects of Divorce, Support/by Wendy Habelow, Ph.D.This week is Mental Illness Awareness Week. When considering divorce when mental illness is involved, Collaborative Divorce can be a very successful approach. “Collaborative is thought of as ‘divorce with dignity,’ where respect, patience and compassion are central tenets of the approach and process. These tenets are especially evident when one of the partners struggles […]
Back to School is Especially Tough for Warring Spouses, And It’s Even Worse During Pandemic
/in Collaborative Divorce, Divorce, Education, Emotional Aspects of Divorce, Support/by Attorney Deborah R. EisenbergFOR IMMEDIATE RELEASE Sept. 9, 2020 Collaborative Divorce Can Help Parents Find Fair Resolution in These Complex Circumstances HARTFORD, Conn; Sept. 9, 2020 – Even in the best of times, going back to school in the fall is a challenge for kids and parents, and it is especially hard for those families starting school […]
10 Things Parents Should Consider for Back-to-School 2020
/in Collaborative Divorce, Divorce, Education, Emotional Aspects of Divorce, Financial Aspects of Divorce, Support/by Elaine Ducharme, Ph.D.By Dr. Elaine Ducharme Back to School 2020 If this were a normal year, parents would be shouting with joy that their kids were going back to school. If this were a normal year, kids would just be shouting. But this is not a normal year. This is 2020, the year of Covid 19. The […]
How to Minimize the Variable Costs in ‘Marital Assets Pie’ During Divorce
/in Collaborative Divorce, Divorce, Education, Emotional Aspects of Divorce, Financial Aspects of Divorce, Support/by Edward M. Goldberg, CFP, ChFC, CDFABy Edward Goldberg I fondly remember the “good ole days.” You know, the days when we would have in person meetings in our conference room with clients without a care about social distancing and wearing masks. When talking to a couple about the financial aspects of their divorce, specifically division of property, I would draw […]
The New Normal: What, If Anything, Can We Expect to be Different in the Judicial System?
/in Collaborative Divorce, Divorce, Education, Emotional Aspects of Divorce, Support/by Felicia HuntBy Attorney Felicia C. Hunt Individuals are experiencing unprecedented challenges by not having court as a form of recourse for serious issues they are facing. Although the courthouse doors are open, the limitations on old procedures can leave families feeling that they do not options or the ability to move forward. With a quick look […]
How Divorced Parents Make Healthy Decisions About Children During Covid
/in Collaborative Divorce, Divorce, Education, Emotional Aspects of Divorce, Support/by Laura Renfro, LMFTBy Laura Renfro, LMFT Let’s talk about how you and your former spouse, the only other parent of your children, can make healthy decisions about how to proceed with making mutual decisions regarding next steps for your children during Covid 19. As of the writing of this article, Connecticut’s Gov. Ned Lamont has authorized […]
With PGA Championship Coming to CT, It’s Vital to Respect State’s Orders and Individuals’ Concerns
/in Collaborative Divorce, Divorce, Education/by Attorney Robert B. FriedBy Attorney Robert B. Fried Nine of the top 10 golfers in the world descend on Cromwell, Conn., this week and 100 more will be here soon for the annual Travelers’ Championship. This is the third PGA event since professional golf did a reboot two weeks ago. And it is the third tournament that will […]
New Order Allows Couples in CT With Collaborative Divorce Agreement to Finalize Divorce Without Going to Court
/in Announcements, Collaborative Divorce, Divorce, Education/by Attorney Robert B. FriedFor Immediate Release June 8, 2020 CCDG Divorce Attorneys: Now Is Actually the Best Time to Get a Divorce! HARTFORD, Conn; June 8, 2020 – In response to the current pandemic situation, family courts in Connecticut remain closed, except for emergencies such as restraining orders and ex parte matters. Other motions will not be […]
Pediatric Behavioral Health Resources in CT
/in Announcements, Collaborative Divorce, Education, Emotional Aspects of Divorce, Support/by Elaine Ducharme, Ph.D.If you are worried about your child or teen…Help is only a phone call away. Child and Adolescent Behavioral Health Referral Resources 1. Mobile Crisis Intervention Services Free behavioral health crisis services, including suicide assessment (under age 18; for those 18 and older, refer to adult services) This service will help identify and connect you with […]
Governors order permitting electronic filings allows couples to divorce during pandemic
/in Collaborative Divorce, Divorce, Support, Uncategorized/by Attorney Robert B. FriedGovernor’s order permitting electronic filings allows couples to divorce during pandemic
Tips for Co-Parenting During Social Distancing
/in Collaborative Divorce, Divorce, Emotional Aspects of Divorce, Support/by Wendy Habelow, Ph.D.West Hartford Psychologist Offers Tips for Coparenting during Social Distancing
Divorced Parents Can Succeed at Coparenting During Social Distancing
/in Collaborative Divorce, Divorce, Education, Emotional Aspects of Divorce, Support, Uncategorized/by Wendy Habelow, Ph.D.CCDG Licensed Psychologist Wendy F. Habelow Shares Insights to Help Divorced Parents Cope with the Current Situation HARTFORD, Conn; April 23, 2020 – As Americans struggle to navigate the new reality of social distancing during the Covid 19 pandemic, divorced and separated parents have the added stress of figuring out how to coparent effectively, […]
Collaborative Divorce is Now the Only Game in Town
/in Collaborative Divorce/by Attorney Jennifer DavisBy Attorney Jennifer Davis During this pandemic, Collaborative Divorce is your divorce option! CCDG can still do 95 percent of a divorce without the courts, which are needed only to finalize the separation agreement as its orders. So we can still initiate the paperwork, exchange documents, negotiate, make interim parenting orders, etc. Once the court […]
How Covid 19 Affects Family Court Cases in Connecticut
/in Announcements, Collaborative Divorce, Divorce, Education/by Attorney Robert B. FriedFOR IMMEDIATE RELEASE April 8, 2020 CCDG Divorce Attorney Robert Fried Explains the Current Situation HARTFORD, Conn; April 8, 2020 – In response to current pandemic situation, the State of Connecticut has closed all but 10 courthouses and limited the matters to be heard, including family court proceedings, to urgent concerns such as restraining […]
Covid-19 and Domestic Violence
/in Collaborative Divorce, Divorce, Emotional Aspects of Divorce, Support/by Attorney Robert B. FriedBy Attorney Robert B. Fried I think we have all heard far more than we would like regarding the impact of COVID-19….with no immediate end in sight. And as an attorney who devotes most of his practice to family law, I have heard the predictions that with so many families staying home, more couple […]
Online Divorces…For Real???
/in Announcements, Collaborative Divorce, Divorce, Education/by Attorney Robert B. FriedBy Attorney Robert B. Fried With today’s uncertain times and most court houses closed and/or doing limited business, I have had a number of people ask if they can do their divorces online. I can only speak for Connecticut. Since December 15, 2015, Connecticut has e-filing so the case immediately appears on the […]
Guidelines for Divorced and Separated Families During COVID 19
/in Announcements, Collaborative Divorce, Divorce, Education, Support/by Elaine Ducharme, Ph.D.Leaders from the American Academy of Matrimonial Lawyers (AAML) and AFCC have released guidelines for coparenting during the COVID-19 pandemic. Seven Guidelines for Parents Who Are Divorced/Separated and Sharing Custody of Children During the COVID 19 Pandemic From the leaders of groups that deal with families in crisis: BE HEALTHY. Comply with all CDC and […]
What to Do Now If You Have a Pending Divorce in Connecticut
/in Collaborative Divorce, Divorce/by Attorney Robert B. FriedBy Robert B. Fried March 25, 2020 I often tell my clients that divorce is contagious and can multiply whether during good times or bad. So, if you have a pending divorce in Connecticut, what can you do now in the wake of this ongoing health crisis? Most Connecticut courts are closed. Thirteen buildings remain […]
Managing Social Isolation During Coronavirus Pandemic
/in Collaborative Divorce, Divorce, Emotional Aspects of Divorce/by Elaine Ducharme, Ph.D.Dr. Elaine Ducharme Offers Helpful Tips for Coping with Complicated Feelings By Dr. Elaine Ducharme March 16, 2020 We are clearly in uncharted waters. Many of us are feeling anxious, overwhelmed, confused by conflicting media reports, sad about cancellation of important events and not quite sure what to do. Parents are wondering how to […]
Why a Collaborative Divorce Makes Financial Sense
/in Collaborative Divorce, Divorce, Financial Aspects of Divorce, Uncategorized/by Edward M. Goldberg, CFP, ChFC, CDFAFOR IMMEDIATE RELEASE March 13, 2020 Save Money, Stay Out of Court & Incorporate a Financial Professional to Plan for Future HARTFORD, Conn; March 13, 2020 – Tax time is always a hassle, and some years can bring more challenges than others. Couples who have recently separated or divorced will face many new financial […]
Is Collaborative Divorce Right for Me?
/in Collaborative Divorce, Divorce/by Brenda Larkin, CDFAUnlike a litigated divorce, Collaborative Divorce is less confrontational and focuses on the needs of the couple and their children. If you’re thinking that a Collaborative Divorce may be the right choice for your family to get through one of life’s most difficult transitions, start by considering the following: Do you and your spouse want to […]
CCDG Experts Offer Valentine’s Day Survival Tips for Divorced People
/in Collaborative Divorce, Divorce, Emotional Aspects of Divorce/by Brenda Larkin, CDFAFOR IMMEDIATE RELEASE Jan. 28, 2020 Get Through the Romantic Season with Advice from CCDG’s Legal, Financial & Mental Health Professionals HARTFORD, Conn; Jan. 28, 2020 – No matter what time of the year it happens, divorce is unpleasant. But those dealing with a divorce around Valentine’s Day can find the romantic imagery of […]
January is National Child-Centered Divorce Awareness Month
/in Collaborative Divorce, Divorce, Education, Emotional Aspects of Divorce/by Abby G. Cole, Ph.D.FOR IMMEDIATE RELEASE Dec. 9, 2019 CCDG’s Divorce Experts Recognize ‘Children Are More Precious Than Any Possession’ and Offer Services & Resources to Prioritize the Needs of Children HARTFORD, Conn; Dec. 9, 2019 – The month of January tends to see a spike in divorce filings, so it is no coincidence that January is […]
Collaborative Divorce: A Route to Happier Holidays During & After Divorce
/in Collaborative Divorce, Divorce, Emotional Aspects of Divorce/by Attorney Susan V. BusbyFOR IMMEDIATE RELEASE Nov. 20, 2019 CCDG’s Divorce Expert Shares Suggestions for More Joyous Holidays During Changes HARTFORD, Conn; Nov. 20, 2019 – The holiday season is often stressful, and for those going through or having just gone through a divorce or separation, the season can induce even more stress, intensify negative emotions, and […]
Co-Parenting: The Trick of Making Halloween a Treat for Children of Divorcing/Divorced Parents
/in Collaborative Divorce, Divorce, Emotional Aspects of Divorce/by Brenda Larkin, CDFAHolidays can be overwhelming for families at all stages of separation and divorce. Even for those who co-parent well, kid-centered holidays like Halloween can still present a number of challenges. But it is most important to make sure the children are happy and secure with the knowledge that both parents are there for them. Here […]
Collaborative Divorce: One Tool to Minimize Domestic Friction & Hostility
/in Collaborative Divorce, Divorce, Emotional Aspects of Divorce/by Elaine Ducharme, Ph.D.FOR IMMEDIATE RELEASE Oct. 18, 2019 Local Divorce Experts Spotlight the Benefits of Collaborative Divorce During National Domestic Violence Awareness Month HARTFORD, Conn; Oct. 18, 2019 – According to the National Coalition Against Domestic Violence, 1 in 3 women and 1 in 4 men have experienced some form of physical violence by an […]
Back to School Planning Tips for Divorcing Parents
/in Collaborative Divorce, Divorce, Education, Emotional Aspects of Divorce, Support/by Bruce Freedman, Ph.D.FOR IMMEDIATE RELEASE Sept. 26, 2019 CCDG’s Local Divorce Coach & Child Specialist Bruce Freedman, Ph.D., Shares Family Strategies to Prepare for the Upcoming Year HARTFORD, CONN; SEPT. 26, 2019 – It’s time to go back-to-school for children and families, and that brings a lot of activities for parents to manage. Extracurricular activities are a […]
Principles to Help the Step-Parenting Process
/in Collaborative Divorce, Divorce, Support, Uncategorized/by Elaine Ducharme, Ph.D.Dr. Elaine Ducharme Offers Helpful Guidelines on Step-Parenting By Dr. Elaine Ducharme As a result of a skyrocketing divorce rate and many individuals delaying marriage well into their thirties, step parenting is becoming increasingly common. 50% of first marriages fail. The number is even higher in second marriages. Initially, a new marriage may seem very […]
Podcast: Dr. Ducharme on How to Avoid Conflict When Talking Kids to Your Ex-Spouse
/in Collaborative Divorce, Divorce, Emotional Aspects of Divorce, Support/by Elaine Ducharme, Ph.D.wrch.radio.com/FreeTherapyThursday-PsychologistDrElaineDucharme
Is Divorce Seasonal? Research Shows Spike in Divorce Filings in August
/in Collaborative Divorce, Divorce, Education, Emotional Aspects of Divorce/by Wendy Habelow, Ph.D.For Immediate Release Aug. 13, 2019 Local Expert: Collaborative Divorce Takes Whole Family Approach to Resolving Conflict HARTFORD, Conn.; Aug. 13, 2019 – Vacations, outdoor events, the beginning of a new school year – for many, August is synonymous with family time. But for some, this month marks the season for divorce. Research from […]
CCDG Divorce Expert Offers Tips for Families During National Child Centered Divorce Month
/in Collaborative Divorce, Divorce, Education, Emotional Aspects of Divorce, Financial Aspects of Divorce, Support, Uncategorized/by Elaine Ducharme, Ph.D.Holiday Tips After Divorce
/in Divorce, Education, Emotional Aspects of Divorce, Support/by Elaine Ducharme, Ph.D.https://wrch.radio.com/blogs/mary-scanlon/dr-elaine-ducharme-holiday-tips-after-divorce
Benefits of Collaborative Divorce Television Interview
/in Collaborative Divorce, Divorce, Education, Emotional Aspects of Divorce, Support/by Elaine Ducharme, Ph.D.The benefits of Collaborative Divorce
Spotlite: Connecticut Collaborative Divorce Group (CCDG)
/in Collaborative Divorce, Divorce, Emotional Aspects of Divorce, Support, Uncategorized/by Elaine Ducharme, Ph.D.Spotlite: Connecticut Collaborative Divorce Group (CCDG)
Collaborative Practice as a Spiritual Practice
/in Collaborative Divorce, Divorce, Emotional Aspects of Divorce, Support/by Attorney Jennifer DavisCollaborative Practice as a Spiritual Practice What do we think about as practitioners when we consider adding or maintaining a collaborative component to our overall law practice? Certainly there are the basic considerations of marketing and cost-effectiveness that make any practice component financially justifiable and for many, the analysis may end there. Beyond that, however, […]
HOW TO MANAGE THE MADNESS OF MOVING AFTER DIVORCE – WHAT STEPS TO TAKE TO REDUCE STRESS ON CHILDREN–
/in Collaborative Divorce, Divorce, Education, Emotional Aspects of Divorce, Support/by Attorney Robert B. FriedHOW TO MANAGE THE MADNESS OF MOVING AFTER DIVORCE -WHAT STEPS TO TAKE TO REDUCE STRESS ON CHILDREN– (HARTFORD, CT)- March 28, 2013– Disruption in routine and residence are two changes that come with any divorce. For children of divorcing parents this shift in schedule can be especially stressful if not managed properly. Connecticut […]
HOW TO HELP COLLEGE KIDS COPE WITH DIVORCING PARENTS – IMPACT OF EMPTY NEST DIVORCE DYNAMIC
/in Collaborative Divorce, Divorce, Education, Emotional Aspects of Divorce/by Attorney Robert B. FriedHOW TO HELP COLLEGE KIDS COPE WITH DIVORCING PARENTS –IMPACT OF EMPTY NEST DIVORCE DYNAMIC– (HARTFORD, CT)- September 30, 2013– When there are problems in a marriage, children are often the glue that holds couples together. However, increasingly once the kids fly the coop, their parents undergo some life changes of their own, taking […]
The Unexpected Collaborator
/in Collaborative Divorce, Divorce, Education/by Attorney Jennifer DavisThe Unexpected Collaborator Jennifer Davis I volunteered to create an icebreaker for a recent retreat for about 25 multi-disciplinary collaborative professionals. I chose a simple concept – tossing a ball of yarn to a participant, who would then tell a little bit about themselves before tossing it to another participant. Some folks were a little […]
Connecticut CollaborativeDivorce Group 2015 Retreat; Divorce: What’s Love Got to Do With It? Inspiration from IACP
/in Collaborative Divorce, Education/by Elaine Ducharme, Ph.D.Connecticut CollaborativeDivorce Group 2015 Retreat; Divorce: What’s Love Got to Do With It? Inspiration from IACP By Elaine Ducharme, PhD, ABPP The Connecticut Collaborative Divorce Group is an interdisciplinary group of 30 professionals devoted to helping families divorce with dignity. This year we held our Third Retreat. Our Retreats have been planned as a way […]
Collaborative Divorce Unites Rather Than Divides
/in Collaborative Divorce, Divorce, Education, Emotional Aspects of Divorce, Financial Aspects of Divorce, Support, Uncategorized/by Attorney Robert B. FriedCOLLABORATIVE DIVORCE UNITES RATHER THAN DIVIDES –ALTERNATIVE APPROACH TO DIVORCE HELPS ALIGN PROFESSIONALS OF VARIOUS DISCIPLINES- (HARTFORD, CT)- June 13, 2013- When many people think about the professionals managing divorce, they only envision attorneys. Presently though, some of the most amicable divorces are achieved through an approach known as collaborative divorce. It reduces stress […]
How To Divorce with Diplomacy
/in Collaborative Divorce, Divorce, Education, Support, Uncategorized/by Attorney Robert B. FriedHOW TO DIVORCE WITH DIPLOMACY -CT COLLABORATIVE DIVORCE GROUP OFFERS OPTIONS FOR FAMILY FRIENDLY DIVORCE- (HARTFORD, CT)- May 23, 2012- May is one of the busiest months of the year for weddings. However, statistics show that nearly half of all those new unions will ultimately end in divorce. Connecticut Collaborative Divorce Group is an […]
How To Build an Effective Team
/in Collaborative Divorce, Divorce, Education, Support, Uncategorized/by Attorney Deborah R. EisenbergHow to Build an Effective Team Deborah R. Eisenberg, Edward Goldberg and Abby Golomb Cole Case Illustration of a Well-Coordinated Team Mist hung heavily on a chilly New England morning, as six of us sat around a conference table, considering financial projections for a divorcing couple. The six included two lawyers, a divorce […]
Understanding Collaborative Divorce: An interview with Attorney Robert Fried
/in Collaborative Divorce, Divorce/by Attorney Robert B. FriedDivorcing with Dignity by Psychologist Dr. Elaine Ducharme
/in Divorce, Education, Emotional Aspects of Divorce, Support/by Elaine Ducharme, Ph.D.http://wrch.cbslocal.com/2011/04/18/divorcing-with-dignity-psychologist-dr-elaine-ducharme/